Much more shabbily IMO! Not to mention the rest of the family (I always rather enjoy the fact that the reason she misses out on that morning with Patrick -- the one Nicola gets instead -- is so obviously PRECISELY because she's made herself so scarce on a daily basis -- skipping out on family time and chores -- that she's completely out of the loop on both packing and dentist appointments. And then she expects Ann to pick up the slack for her -- and why should Ann? -- just because Ginty is sooooo special with her Very Important Romantic Life that noone else in the family has, and everyone else should just fall in line and serve Ginty's romantic narrative, which is clearly far more important than anything anyone else could possibly be doing).