As a lifelong, cardholding member of the introvert and non-joiners union, I completely agree with that.

My point was about Ginty's response to this discovery - her surprise, followed by an attempt to fit Patrick into some kind of group activity, showed how little she actually understood him. They were been so absorbed in the emotion of being around each other and the various personas they created that they didn't actually know who the other person was. Hence the inevitable downfall.